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My Favorite White Bean Soup

INGREDIENTS:

White beans (such as cannellini or navy beans) 1 Can

Onion -1 medium-size onion diced

Carrot -3 medium carrot diced,

Celery -3 celery stalk, diced

Garlic – 3 cloves diced

Potatoes -2 medium-size potatoes, peeled and cut into chunks

Olive Oil -1 Tbsp olive oil, plus more for serving

White Wine -1/3 cup of white wine

Frozen Spinach -2 cups of frozen spinach

Rosemary -2 sprigs of Rosemary (chopped fresh leaves)

Paprika -1 Tbs Paprika (optional)

Salt – 1/2 tsp fine salt, plus more to taste

Pepper -1/8 tsp black pepper, plus more to taste

Vegetable Broth -2 cups  water with 3 Not- Chick’n vegetable bouillon or similar bouillon

Heat the olive oil in a large pot over medium heat. Once the oil is simmering add the diced onion, carrot, and celery. Cook, stirring often, until the onion has become softened and is turning translucent, about 5 minutes.

Add the garlic, can of beans with liquid , potatoes, rosemary (whole sprig, chopped, or dried, whatever it’s easier for you. I usually use 2 sprigs chopped because I like the rosemary taste) and paprika about a tablespoon (if you use it). Cook stirring frequently, about 1 minute.

Add the wine, (I use Clean Slate Riesling or White wine of your choice about 1/3 cup)stir well and let it simmer until it has evaporated, cooking for another minute.

Then add the frozen spinach, the vegetable broth ( I use  2 cups of filtered water with Not – Chick’n bouillon (3-cubes Whole Foods or Amazon or a bouillon of your choice) and a good pinch of salt and pepper. Raise the heat and bring the mixture to a boil, then cover the pot, reduce heat and cook gently for 15 minutes.

When the potatoes are soft and the soup is thick and creamy, remove the pot from heat. Taste and season with salt and pepper. (I usually add a pinch of salt at the beginning + 1/2 tsp later. You might need more salt, depending on your vegetable broth and on your personal preferences.)*

Divide into bowls, drizzle with olive oil or extra virgin olive oil, and more freshly ground black pepper if you like. Serve with a few tablespoons of quinoa, crusty whole grain bread and, if you don’t keep it vegan, add freshly grated parmesan cheese for extra flavor. Enjoy!

My Favorite White Bean Soup

INGREDIENTS:

White beans (such as cannellini or navy beans) 1 Can

Onion -1 medium-size onion diced

Carrot -3 medium carrot diced,

Celery -3 celery stalk, diced

Garlic – 3 cloves diced

Potatoes -2 medium-size potatoes, peeled and cut into chunks

Olive Oil -1 Tbsp olive oil, plus more for serving

White Wine -1/3 cup of white wine

Frozen Spinach -2 cups of frozen spinach

Rosemary -2 sprigs of Rosemary (chopped fresh leaves)

Paprika -1 Tbs Paprika (optional)

Salt – 1/2 tsp fine salt, plus more to taste

Pepper -1/8 tsp black pepper, plus more to taste

Vegetable Broth -2 cups  water with 3 Not- Chick’n vegetable bouillon or similar bouillon

Heat the olive oil in a large pot over medium heat. Once the oil is simmering add the diced onion, carrot, and celery. Cook, stirring often, until the onion has become softened and is turning translucent, about 5 minutes.

Add the garlic, can of beans with liquid , potatoes, rosemary (whole sprig, chopped, or dried, whatever it’s easier for you. I usually use 2 sprigs chopped because I like the rosemary taste) and paprika about a tablespoon (if you use it). Cook stirring frequently, about 1 minute.

Add the wine, (I use Clean Slate Riesling or White wine of your choice about 1/3 cup)stir well and let it simmer until it has evaporated, cooking for another minute.

Then add the frozen spinach, the vegetable broth ( I use  2 cups of filtered water with Not – Chick’n bouillon (3-cubes Whole Foods or Amazon or a bouillon of your choice) and a good pinch of salt and pepper. Raise the heat and bring the mixture to a boil, then cover the pot, reduce heat and cook gently for 15 minutes.

When the potatoes are soft and the soup is thick and creamy, remove the pot from heat. Taste and season with salt and pepper. (I usually add a pinch of salt at the beginning + 1/2 tsp later. You might need more salt, depending on your vegetable broth and on your personal preferences.)*

Divide into bowls, drizzle with olive oil or extra virgin olive oil, and more freshly ground black pepper if you like. Serve with a few tablespoons of quinoa, crusty whole grain bread and, if you don’t keep it vegan, add freshly grated parmesan cheese for extra flavor. Enjoy!

Most of the time, life goes according to plan. But there are times when negativity hits like a ton of bricks.

When adversity strikes, you may feel frozen and powerless. You may also feel guilty because you cannot seem to accomplish anything. But when you are hurting emotionally, it makes sense that you need time to pause, process, and regroup.

When you are not feeling well physically, you usually care for yourself by resting, taking medicine, and taking time off from your regular activities. So why not care for your mental and emotional health in the same way?

Mental health is a big part of wellness. Life has its moments. I believe in limiting negative emotions, but I also believe it is important to express them when an unfortunate event happens. The key is not to ruminate on them.

Negative emotions can come from experiencing a loss, feeling overwhelmed, being disappointed, or having expectations that were not met. Although you cannot always control the adverse event, you can control how you respond to it.

One way to do that is to create what I call a Pajama Day.

What Is a Pajama Day?

I coined the phrase “Pajama Day” because, if you are like me, when something adverse happens, all you want to do is climb into bed with your pajamas on until it passes.

Here is the good news: you do not actually have to put on your pajamas. You can create your Pajama Day your way.

A Pajama Day is a two-part plan for nurturing and action. The best part is that although you cannot control the adversity, you can control how you choose to care for yourself.

Part One: Nurture Yourself Without Judgment

Part One begins when the adverse event occurs and you feel frozen, stressed, overwhelmed, or emotionally drained.

This is when your Pajama Day begins.

Do something that makes you feel more comfortable. Give yourself time to recover without judgment. It is like calling a timeout on your life so you can nurture yourself.

You are human, and humans need care.

During this time, practice self-awareness, self-compassion, and self-care.

Self-awareness means acknowledging the event and how it has impacted you. Think about how you have handled adversity in the past. What helped you recover? What did not help? What do you need right now?

Self-compassion means showing yourself kindness, just as you would show kindness to a best friend who was going through a difficult time.

Self-care is the nurturing part. It means giving yourself the care you need so you can recover.

The way you nurture yourself will be unique to you. Some of my clients have shared that they nurture themselves by sleeping, talking to a wise friend or family member, getting a spa treatment, going shopping, eating a favorite food, dismissing their daily routine, watching movies, or doing nothing at all.

The most important part of Part One is giving yourself permission to rest without guilt.

Why Pajama Day Needs a Plan

The purpose of a Pajama Day is not to stay stuck in sadness, fear, anger, or disappointment. The purpose is to give yourself time to breathe, process, and care for yourself so you can move forward.

That is why it helps to have a beginning and an ending.

Your Pajama Day may last twenty-four to forty-eight hours. In some cases, depending on the nature and degree of adversity, it may last a little longer.

The point is to give yourself space without allowing yourself to ruminate.

Part Two: Create a Positive Plan

The second part of Pajama Day is creating a positive plan to regroup, move forward, and overcome the adversity.

This is when you begin to ask yourself:

What is my next right step?
What do I need now?
What can I control?
What would help me feel stronger?
What is one small action I can take?

Your positive plan may include getting back on track with healthy food choices, exercise, meditation, journaling, prayer, organizing your home, reaching out for support, or simply returning to your regular routine.

Some people like to clean and organize because it makes them feel productive and gives them a sense of control. Others need quiet, rest, movement, or connection.

There is no one right way. The goal is to choose something that helps you move from feeling powerless to feeling more grounded.

Moving Forward After Adversity

There are many things in life we can plan. Most of the time, if we plan well, things may work out the way we hoped. But life is not always predictable.

Sometimes the unexpected happens, and sometimes it is negative.

When adversity comes, you do not have to pretend you are fine. You do not have to push through without feeling. You are allowed to pause. You are allowed to nurture yourself. You are allowed to take a timeout.

Then, when you are ready, you can create a positive plan and begin again.

A Pajama Day is not about giving up. It is about catching your breath, caring for yourself, and choosing how you want to move forward.

Gemma Nastasi, PCC, NBHWC, CAPP, CHNC